"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you tell your friends about girls u fuk?

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blackwolf

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just wonderin if you guys spill the beans whenever you get laid... do you tell your friends or keep quiet?

usually i dont tell anyone cause i dont like showing off.. but theres this one friend that seems to get jealous when i mention im with a girl or meeting one... just before when i said i was meeting someone that he knows.. i told him i was gonna make a move on her and hes like nahh she wont do anything with you. now im thinking maybei should just shut up about girls i hook up with.. but then he'll think i never have girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do you care what your friend or anyone thinks. Were you not put on this planet not to impress and please anyone but yourself?
 
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Sir Psycho Sexy

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I didnt ever tell my friends about my girls unless they asked. Even then I usually held out details.

It easier to just not tell them or your going to be making jealousy in the friendship.
 
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Nah. If I'm out with a girl, its assumed isn't it? If I don't bring her around my friends I don't want them to know. I keep my business to myself. Actually since women talk more than men, in a social circle they may know more than other guys who you slept with, and if they know you keep your mouth closed they might try you out if you get good reviews. It pays to keep your business to yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rex Man

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Rarely. And then, only to my friends that are good with women. Mentioning sexual exploits, even in passing, does nothing but build up resentment and jealousy. Just as the rich man shouldn't flaunt his money in the company of the impoverished, a man with a healthy sex life shouldn't gloat in front of those less fortunate; be they friend or foe.

If you need further proof, look no further than Szyzzlin's post about his "connection" on the dance floor.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178585

Jealousy is an amazingly powerful force, do not turn it against yourself.
 
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I used to be a big "stories" guy when I was younger. Now I rarely tell anyone anything unless something extremely interesting happens. You know, if she's married or has a crazy boyfriend or something.
 
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