lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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I share it with some of them, but not in a complaining way, just storytelling. Do you? If no, why?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Do you tell women your problems (personal/professional)?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Yes I do it but no major personality or confidence issues (every person has some), only carreer options, only stuff that doesn't make you a whiny little *****. And uhm, my cake is that women (IN GENERAL, THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS - let me make this clear) don't give you great analysis or tips, only crap like ''trust your feelings''. So it's best to discuss stuff like that with buddies you trust and rely on their point of view. Women are for enjoyment, fun, and cex.
The best thing is to follow your own gut anyway, it's almost always right.
Okay I just woke up on my day off, going to make a sandwich, clean my car and gym, will make a new post about my plates and two who are leaving my rotation silently... Have a nice day brothers.
The best thing is to follow your own gut anyway, it's almost always right.
Okay I just woke up on my day off, going to make a sandwich, clean my car and gym, will make a new post about my plates and two who are leaving my rotation silently... Have a nice day brothers.