"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you tell women your problems (personal/professional)?

lizardking82

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I share it with some of them, but not in a complaining way, just storytelling. Do you? If no, why?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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soulforge

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Nope I never share private problems with woman.. You just don't know how she will react to it.. And when she may USE it against you.
 

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Yes I do it but no major personality or confidence issues (every person has some), only carreer options, only stuff that doesn't make you a whiny little *****. And uhm, my cake is that women (IN GENERAL, THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS - let me make this clear) don't give you great analysis or tips, only crap like ''trust your feelings''. So it's best to discuss stuff like that with buddies you trust and rely on their point of view. Women are for enjoyment, fun, and cex.

The best thing is to follow your own gut anyway, it's almost always right.

Okay I just woke up on my day off, going to make a sandwich, clean my car and gym, will make a new post about my plates and two who are leaving my rotation silently... Have a nice day brothers.
 
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