"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you take any probiotics?

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We all know digestive health is very important. It's even been said by some people that your gut is "your second brain".

Do you take any probiotics? I was interested in starting myself off with something cheap to experiment but all of the ones I've seen are so damn expensive. I've been drinking kefir for a couple months now. I like it.

But I was wondering is it practical for the average person to start a course of probiotics?

Who here has any experience they would like to share?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I took probiotics once. Didn't notice any difference, dropped it. If something isn't showing me noticeable results i don't waste my money on it.
 

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We all know digestive health is very important. It's even been said by some people that your gut is "your second brain".

Do you take any probiotics? I was interested in starting myself off with something cheap to experiment but all of the ones I've seen are so damn expensive. I've been drinking kefir for a couple months now. I like it.

But I was wondering is it practical for the average person to start a course of probiotics?

Who here has any experience they would like to share?
I used to as well. I didn't see any difference. I think things like that have to be implemented over the long haul and if you're ever expecting to 'see' results, you'll be disappointed. Basically, if you start now, you might have a clean gut a year from now.

But you also need to eat natural foods while you do it.
 

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No, I drink homemade organic grassfed whole milk kefir. It's like an entire bottle of probiotics in a few ounce serving. 40+ strains of probiotic goodness. 150 billion CFF's per tablespoon.

It's also the easiest way to cut food positioning off at the pass...it completely wipes out the bacteria causing the issue by overwhelmingly outcompeting it.
 

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I used to as well. I didn't see any difference. I think things like that have to be implemented over the long haul and if you're ever expecting to 'see' results, you'll be disappointed. Basically, if you start now, you might have a clean gut a year from now.

But you also need to eat natural foods while you do it.
Probiotics can help but the issue is most contain relatively so little compared to the bacteria already in your guy it would be like dropping a grain on the beach.

That's why you need to take things like kefir, kombucha, sauerkraut, natto, etc...

Those are fermented foods with hundreds of times the good bacteria that a probiotic would have. It's the equivalent of a bucket of sand versus a grain of sand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Probiotics can help but the issue is most contain relatively so little compared to the bacteria already in your guy it would be like dropping a grain on the beach.

That's why you need to take things like kefir, kombucha, sauerkraut, natto, etc...

Those are fermented foods with hundreds of times the good bacteria that a probiotic would have. It's the equivalent of a bucket of sand versus a grain of sand.
All that stuff is beyond disgusting. I'm not sure how you choke it down.

Suggestions welcomed.
 

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All that stuff is beyond disgusting. I'm not sure how you choke it down.

Suggestions welcomed.
Nothing disgusting at all about kefir, it's like drinking yogurt almost with a mellow taste. If you leave it in too long then ya it can get strong
 

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No, I drink homemade organic grassfed whole milk kefir. It's like an entire bottle of probiotics in a few ounce serving. 40+ strains of probiotic goodness. 150 billion CFF's per tablespoon.

It's also the easiest way to cut food positioning off at the pass...it completely wipes out the bacteria causing the issue by overwhelmingly outcompeting it.
Lol at @speed dawg . Fermented food is not gross. Ever had sauerkraut on a hot dog? Tastes just like onions. I like kefir also. It was only strange-tasting the first time I had it.

Honestly I think @marmel75 has a point. Why take probiotics if you could just eat tasty foods that already have all the microbes you need?
 

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We all know digestive health is very important. It's even been said by some people that your gut is "your second brain".

Do you take any probiotics? I was interested in starting myself off with something cheap to experiment but all of the ones I've seen are so damn expensive. I've been drinking kefir for a couple months now. I like it.

But I was wondering is it practical for the average person to start a course of probiotics?

Who here has any experience they would like to share?
Just eat organic yogurt (no added hormones, GMOs, chemicals, etc.). All types of yogurt have probiotics. ALL of them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep!
 

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Just eat organic yogurt (no added hormones, GMOs, chemicals, etc.). All types of yogurt have probiotics. ALL of them.
Yogurt does, but only about 5-6 strains max...milk kefir has 40+ strains and water kefir 20+ strains...

Gut health depends not just on the amount of good bacteria in your gut but also on the makeup of that bacteria...the more diverse the good bacteria, the better.
 
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