jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
well ive done it a few times cause honestly my downstairs hair annoys me. so im just curious on what everyone else does.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Have you tried tweezers?jesusrules said:well ive done it a few times cause honestly my downstairs hair annoys me.
Use Nair.kdnash82 said:Now, not to gross anyone out, but I have shaving the area around the peter and the ball sack down to a science. Even the "hairy grundle" (the part between your sack and hole)The true question is, how do you guys get that hair in your azz crack?
Dead serious. Do you get a mirror down there? Do you just stick the razor down there and do a couple blind swipes hoping that you get it? Should I get my girl to do it for me? Should I go get it waxed?
If I go with the wax, then I'm back to the hair bumps again. I've had these damn things before in my azz crack and that also is one of the worst pains I've ever had.
No! Not unless you want to have what looks to be a herpes breakout wherever you put the sh!t. I know, trust me.Master Bates said:Use Nair.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i just straight up shave most of the hair i can see as far as my pubes go... for the ass crack, i dont worry about it too much. a trim is a good thing every once in a while but unless you like gettin the rusty trombones every once in a while dont worry about it.comic_relief said:shave all body hair but my legs, arms, and my hair on the top of my head.