"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do You Say Stuff To a Girl When You're Dancing?Serious

kingxxxman

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What do you say to a girl when you're grinding or whatever, like if you know them already. Do you talk to them? or?
 

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naa u dont, just be in the moment and let your bodies do the talking

keep it fun at first, really try to stop thinking and just enjoy yourself and let it get sexual
 

joe henny

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I do, but this is the only thing I say...(hand her my phone) "write your number down".

Works like a charm every time every single time
 

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LOLz I do this all the time.

Sometimes I talk in her ear and let my lips touch her ear lobe a little bit and say things like "hey I like what you do (in a sexy and kind of horny way followed with a ****y short laugh like ha)" gives them a bit of a confidence boost and they usually put their ass in your crotch harder.

THen I will say "Whats your name?" and she'll give it to me. Then after a minute or two ill say "come here" and then turn her around and just move my hands from the side of her body to her hips but making sure my hands follow the curve of her body. Then go back up and look at her in the eyes and bite my lip a bit and just pull her from the waist closer and kiss her.

But then just push her away a bit and turn her around and just grind her ass some more.
 

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On a dancefloor its unlikely I'd say anything and just escalate via body language. Just dancing close to a girl for some time can get both of you very turned on if there's attraction there - which makes it very easy to then take her home :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't dance too long, her mates will drag her off. Couple of tracks, then take her away somewhere quieter, chat her up, makeout, get digits and/or take home :)
 

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what kinda look should you have on your face when your dancing? like if its a semi lit place where you can see other peoples faces. should you be smilling like hell? or?
 

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Oh well, I was dancing at this cool club in LA. Some smoking hot 35 year old starts to grind against me just as the music started to get on fire. I was afraid I was going to lose here so I slowly led her to the corner of the club away from the rest of the crowd. Simply grabbed her hips and bent her over onto a chair. Banged the hell out of her. Didn't last but a minute. Hottest night of the week for me.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Oh well, I was dancing at this cool club in LA. Some smoking hot 35 year old starts to grind against me just as the music started to get on fire. I was afraid I was going to lose here so I slowly led her to the corner of the club away from the rest of the crowd. Simply grabbed her hips and bent her over onto a chair. Banged the hell out of her. Didn't last but a minute. Hottest night of the week for me.
Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockey

sad:down:

@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
 

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Solomon said:
Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockey

sad:down:

@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
"but the your KJness is reeking"??? What does that mean? I guess you are a product of the American educational system. Go back and read your post. Sad.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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