"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do You Say Stuff To a Girl When You're Dancing?Serious

kingxxxman

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What do you say to a girl when you're grinding or whatever, like if you know them already. Do you talk to them? or?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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realtalk

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naa u dont, just be in the moment and let your bodies do the talking

keep it fun at first, really try to stop thinking and just enjoy yourself and let it get sexual
 

joe henny

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I do, but this is the only thing I say...(hand her my phone) "write your number down".

Works like a charm every time every single time
 

harkkam08

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LOLz I do this all the time.

Sometimes I talk in her ear and let my lips touch her ear lobe a little bit and say things like "hey I like what you do (in a sexy and kind of horny way followed with a ****y short laugh like ha)" gives them a bit of a confidence boost and they usually put their ass in your crotch harder.

THen I will say "Whats your name?" and she'll give it to me. Then after a minute or two ill say "come here" and then turn her around and just move my hands from the side of her body to her hips but making sure my hands follow the curve of her body. Then go back up and look at her in the eyes and bite my lip a bit and just pull her from the waist closer and kiss her.

But then just push her away a bit and turn her around and just grind her ass some more.
 

Tesl

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On a dancefloor its unlikely I'd say anything and just escalate via body language. Just dancing close to a girl for some time can get both of you very turned on if there's attraction there - which makes it very easy to then take her home :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jay Dee

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Don't dance too long, her mates will drag her off. Couple of tracks, then take her away somewhere quieter, chat her up, makeout, get digits and/or take home :)
 

kingxxxman

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what kinda look should you have on your face when your dancing? like if its a semi lit place where you can see other peoples faces. should you be smilling like hell? or?
 

BigJimbo

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Oh well, I was dancing at this cool club in LA. Some smoking hot 35 year old starts to grind against me just as the music started to get on fire. I was afraid I was going to lose here so I slowly led her to the corner of the club away from the rest of the crowd. Simply grabbed her hips and bent her over onto a chair. Banged the hell out of her. Didn't last but a minute. Hottest night of the week for me.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Oh well, I was dancing at this cool club in LA. Some smoking hot 35 year old starts to grind against me just as the music started to get on fire. I was afraid I was going to lose here so I slowly led her to the corner of the club away from the rest of the crowd. Simply grabbed her hips and bent her over onto a chair. Banged the hell out of her. Didn't last but a minute. Hottest night of the week for me.
Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockey

sad:down:

@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
 

BigJimbo

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Solomon said:
Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockey

sad:down:

@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
"but the your KJness is reeking"??? What does that mean? I guess you are a product of the American educational system. Go back and read your post. Sad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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