kingxxxman
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What do you say to a girl when you're grinding or whatever, like if you know them already. Do you talk to them? or?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do You Say Stuff To a Girl When You're Dancing?Serious
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOLz I do this all the time.
Sometimes I talk in her ear and let my lips touch her ear lobe a little bit and say things like "hey I like what you do (in a sexy and kind of horny way followed with a ****y short laugh like ha)" gives them a bit of a confidence boost and they usually put their ass in your crotch harder.
THen I will say "Whats your name?" and she'll give it to me. Then after a minute or two ill say "come here" and then turn her around and just move my hands from the side of her body to her hips but making sure my hands follow the curve of her body. Then go back up and look at her in the eyes and bite my lip a bit and just pull her from the waist closer and kiss her.
But then just push her away a bit and turn her around and just grind her ass some more.
Sometimes I talk in her ear and let my lips touch her ear lobe a little bit and say things like "hey I like what you do (in a sexy and kind of horny way followed with a ****y short laugh like ha)" gives them a bit of a confidence boost and they usually put their ass in your crotch harder.
THen I will say "Whats your name?" and she'll give it to me. Then after a minute or two ill say "come here" and then turn her around and just move my hands from the side of her body to her hips but making sure my hands follow the curve of her body. Then go back up and look at her in the eyes and bite my lip a bit and just pull her from the waist closer and kiss her.
But then just push her away a bit and turn her around and just grind her ass some more.
On a dancefloor its unlikely I'd say anything and just escalate via body language. Just dancing close to a girl for some time can get both of you very turned on if there's attraction there - which makes it very easy to then take her home 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
kingxxxman
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what kinda look should you have on your face when your dancing? like if its a semi lit place where you can see other peoples faces. should you be smilling like hell? or?
Oh well, I was dancing at this cool club in LA. Some smoking hot 35 year old starts to grind against me just as the music started to get on fire. I was afraid I was going to lose here so I slowly led her to the corner of the club away from the rest of the crowd. Simply grabbed her hips and bent her over onto a chair. Banged the hell out of her. Didn't last but a minute. Hottest night of the week for me.
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@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockeyBigJimbo said:
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@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
"but the your KJness is reeking"??? What does that mean? I guess you are a product of the American educational system. Go back and read your post. Sad.Solomon said:Not only are your post getting lamer by the minute, but the your KJness is reeking, you use to be a funny keyboard jockey, now your just a keyboard jockey
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@OP, it depends, if you brush your lips agaisnt her ears it can turn them on, but usually its to loud for all that, so i just grind and go for the make out
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
kingxxxman
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