"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you say I Love You ?

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Originally posted by MondeLibre
No i'm a guy but i'm not very good in English and i make some mystake!

my first post translate in french is :

Salut les amis, je suis nouveau, j'espère que vous allez m'accepter parmis vous les gars ;)

Voila, faut-il lui dire je t'aime? si c'est oui, et bien à quelle fréquences les amis et merci de votre réponse d'avance ;)
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Gotta love Babelfish! :rolleyes:

Avant que je réponde à ta question, tu as besoin de le rendre clair si tu es un homme ou une femme... :p

Ich kann auch Deutsch, so ob du damit sprechen willst, das is auch cool.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
 
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Originally posted by MondeLibre
Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
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Du musst uns mehr Information geben.

Bist Du Mann oder Frau? Wie lang haben Du und Deine(r) Freund(in) zusammen gewesen?

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English version :

i'm a men, i'm with my girl since 1month, but my question its fur generaly

thanks for your help

French version:

je suis un homme je suis avec ma copine depuis 1 mois mais ma question et pour génréralement

Merci pour votre aide

Deutsch version

ich bin ein man, und ich bin mit sie als 1monat... aber mein question ist fur die general

Danke
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ah bon.

Tu le veux afin qu'elle dise "je t'aime" cinq fois pour chaque une fois que tu lui dis à elle. Et, ELLE devrait le dire EN PREMIER.

Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.

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Ock-Nay it the uck-fay off-ay.
 
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Originally posted by BGMan
Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.
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A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
 
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ja?

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?

depends on the timing. never say it before 2 months of meeting the girl, and only say it if you know its right.

depends on the girl as well, if you love her, say it, but not too often
 
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A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
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[What Giovanni Casanova just said]

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by jakeyboy

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?
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That's exactely whats i will meaning! thanks jakeyboy

anybody have the soluce !?
 
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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
 
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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
its right ?
 
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