"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you say I Love You ?

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Originally posted by MondeLibre
No i'm a guy but i'm not very good in English and i make some mystake!

my first post translate in french is :

Salut les amis, je suis nouveau, j'espère que vous allez m'accepter parmis vous les gars ;)

Voila, faut-il lui dire je t'aime? si c'est oui, et bien à quelle fréquences les amis et merci de votre réponse d'avance ;)
Gotta love Babelfish! :rolleyes:

Avant que je réponde à ta question, tu as besoin de le rendre clair si tu es un homme ou une femme... :p

Ich kann auch Deutsch, so ob du damit sprechen willst, das is auch cool.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
 

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Originally posted by MondeLibre
Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
Du musst uns mehr Information geben.

Bist Du Mann oder Frau? Wie lang haben Du und Deine(r) Freund(in) zusammen gewesen?

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English version :

i'm a men, i'm with my girl since 1month, but my question its fur generaly

thanks for your help

French version:

je suis un homme je suis avec ma copine depuis 1 mois mais ma question et pour génréralement

Merci pour votre aide

Deutsch version

ich bin ein man, und ich bin mit sie als 1monat... aber mein question ist fur die general

Danke
:)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah bon.

Tu le veux afin qu'elle dise "je t'aime" cinq fois pour chaque une fois que tu lui dis à elle. Et, ELLE devrait le dire EN PREMIER.

Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.

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Ock-Nay it the uck-fay off-ay.
 

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Originally posted by BGMan
Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.
A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
 

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ja?

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?

depends on the timing. never say it before 2 months of meeting the girl, and only say it if you know its right.

depends on the girl as well, if you love her, say it, but not too often
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
[What Giovanni Casanova just said]

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by jakeyboy

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?

That's exactely whats i will meaning! thanks jakeyboy

anybody have the soluce !?
 

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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
 

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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
its right ?
 
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