"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you say I Love You ?

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Originally posted by MondeLibre
No i'm a guy but i'm not very good in English and i make some mystake!

my first post translate in french is :

Salut les amis, je suis nouveau, j'espère que vous allez m'accepter parmis vous les gars ;)

Voila, faut-il lui dire je t'aime? si c'est oui, et bien à quelle fréquences les amis et merci de votre réponse d'avance ;)
Gotta love Babelfish! :rolleyes:

Avant que je réponde à ta question, tu as besoin de le rendre clair si tu es un homme ou une femme... :p

Ich kann auch Deutsch, so ob du damit sprechen willst, das is auch cool.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
 

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Originally posted by MondeLibre
Ja aber warum ich sollst nichts sagst "Ich liebe dich"
Du musst uns mehr Information geben.

Bist Du Mann oder Frau? Wie lang haben Du und Deine(r) Freund(in) zusammen gewesen?

BGMan
 

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English version :

i'm a men, i'm with my girl since 1month, but my question its fur generaly

thanks for your help

French version:

je suis un homme je suis avec ma copine depuis 1 mois mais ma question et pour génréralement

Merci pour votre aide

Deutsch version

ich bin ein man, und ich bin mit sie als 1monat... aber mein question ist fur die general

Danke
:)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah bon.

Tu le veux afin qu'elle dise "je t'aime" cinq fois pour chaque une fois que tu lui dis à elle. Et, ELLE devrait le dire EN PREMIER.

Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.

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Ock-Nay it the uck-fay off-ay.
 

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Originally posted by BGMan
Autrement, tu MONTRES à elle que tu l'aimes à travers tes actions.
A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
 

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ja?

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?

depends on the timing. never say it before 2 months of meeting the girl, and only say it if you know its right.

depends on the girl as well, if you love her, say it, but not too often
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
A bl0wjob is the perfect way to do it! How do you say that in French? Un bl0wjob? Sucez un penis? Lechez un penis? Reniflez un penis?
[What Giovanni Casanova just said]

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by jakeyboy

i think what you mean is should we say i love you to our partner righT?

That's exactely whats i will meaning! thanks jakeyboy

anybody have the soluce !?
 

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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
 

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because i have read :

the first rules in the seduction is "dont say i love you"
its right ?
 
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