Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you say "I love you" every time she does?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SharinganUser

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Until I know I am dating her exclusively and I think it's going to work out, I just reply with "I know."
 
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I noticed that you said dating and not in a relationship. If she's saying it ALL the time then she has issues. Usually when there's a constant flood of "love" going on then that may mean that person likes you more than you like them. How do you feel about her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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katatonia

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Yellow flag, she's constantly telling you how much she loves you and you're only dating? How long have you been dating? Watch out for this one.

And no you don't have to say it back at all.
 
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Agreed!

The most pathetical thing is life is to see people saying 'I love you' as frequently as they do 'I gotta pee'.

You don't have to say it back, but expect her to say that more and more as her insecurity increases...
 
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I like this girl, so I do want to show her affection. But with how much she says it I feel like I would be showerin her with it. I haven't said it back to her yet, but is that too harsh? I'm just havin trouble finding a middle ground where I can say things like that without her thinkin I'm wrapped around her finger.
 
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say it went you want to. if its excessive cos she is insecure then maybe pay her more attention. if she is low-self esteem its best to walk imo. you are overthinking about being wrapped around her finger, its okay to show love and affection if you like her. most guys in this community lacked love from their mothers and is why they have showing this side of themselves.
 
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I've waited as long as a year and a half to tell a chick I lover her.. keeps it a challenge.

You can show her you love her without saying those words...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Only say it if you mean it. And no I don't. Not to play childish games,or this hard to get non-sense,but sometimes I just smile or kiss my girl back to let her know.
 
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Ya, I probably am overthinking this...thanks to all who responded, this was a big help
 
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You can say it back. It doesn't mean anything. It will only mean something if you actually back it up. People (not just girls) don't care what you say to them; they care what you do for them and how you act towards them. Show her you love her (if indeed you do, otherwise next her). Other than that, say it as often as you want. Talk is cheap.

Put some thought into a gift/date. Surprise her. Take her somewhere she's never been. Be spontaneous. Live life with her.
 
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Hell no!

Men are supposed to say "I love you too". Also, men are supposed to say some other witty sh*t mixed in with that.

Case closed.
 
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