"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you say "I love you" every time she does?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SharinganUser

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Until I know I am dating her exclusively and I think it's going to work out, I just reply with "I know."
 
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I noticed that you said dating and not in a relationship. If she's saying it ALL the time then she has issues. Usually when there's a constant flood of "love" going on then that may mean that person likes you more than you like them. How do you feel about her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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katatonia

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Yellow flag, she's constantly telling you how much she loves you and you're only dating? How long have you been dating? Watch out for this one.

And no you don't have to say it back at all.
 
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Agreed!

The most pathetical thing is life is to see people saying 'I love you' as frequently as they do 'I gotta pee'.

You don't have to say it back, but expect her to say that more and more as her insecurity increases...
 
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I like this girl, so I do want to show her affection. But with how much she says it I feel like I would be showerin her with it. I haven't said it back to her yet, but is that too harsh? I'm just havin trouble finding a middle ground where I can say things like that without her thinkin I'm wrapped around her finger.
 
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say it went you want to. if its excessive cos she is insecure then maybe pay her more attention. if she is low-self esteem its best to walk imo. you are overthinking about being wrapped around her finger, its okay to show love and affection if you like her. most guys in this community lacked love from their mothers and is why they have showing this side of themselves.
 
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I've waited as long as a year and a half to tell a chick I lover her.. keeps it a challenge.

You can show her you love her without saying those words...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Only say it if you mean it. And no I don't. Not to play childish games,or this hard to get non-sense,but sometimes I just smile or kiss my girl back to let her know.
 
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Ya, I probably am overthinking this...thanks to all who responded, this was a big help
 
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You can say it back. It doesn't mean anything. It will only mean something if you actually back it up. People (not just girls) don't care what you say to them; they care what you do for them and how you act towards them. Show her you love her (if indeed you do, otherwise next her). Other than that, say it as often as you want. Talk is cheap.

Put some thought into a gift/date. Surprise her. Take her somewhere she's never been. Be spontaneous. Live life with her.
 
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Hell no!

Men are supposed to say "I love you too". Also, men are supposed to say some other witty sh*t mixed in with that.

Case closed.
 
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