SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Personally I prefer introverted girls, extroverted girls seem to annoy the fvck out of me.
Whats your guys take?
Whats your guys take?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do you prefer introverted girls or extroverted girls?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
-Gripz-
Don Juan
Introverted women are considerably easier to talk to for me. Some of them are a bit quiet but once you get comfortable with each other you can have some really interesting conversation. I find them to be a bit more unique as they may have differing interests than the norm.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Something to the extent of 60% introverted/30% extroverted. Either extreme is a headache.
Bokanovsky
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As with everything in life, balance is key. A girl who is too introverted is going to be boring because you'd have nothing to talk to her about and a girl who is too extroverted is going to be annoying and an attention wh0re.SamTheHobit said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.