SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Personally I prefer introverted girls, extroverted girls seem to annoy the fvck out of me.
Whats your guys take?
Whats your guys take?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you prefer introverted girls or extroverted girls?
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
-Gripz-
Don Juan
Introverted women are considerably easier to talk to for me. Some of them are a bit quiet but once you get comfortable with each other you can have some really interesting conversation. I find them to be a bit more unique as they may have differing interests than the norm.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Something to the extent of 60% introverted/30% extroverted. Either extreme is a headache.
Bokanovsky
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As with everything in life, balance is key. A girl who is too introverted is going to be boring because you'd have nothing to talk to her about and a girl who is too extroverted is going to be annoying and an attention wh0re.SamTheHobit said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.