SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Personally I prefer introverted girls, extroverted girls seem to annoy the fvck out of me.
Whats your guys take?
Whats your guys take?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you prefer introverted girls or extroverted girls?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
-Gripz-
Don Juan
Introverted women are considerably easier to talk to for me. Some of them are a bit quiet but once you get comfortable with each other you can have some really interesting conversation. I find them to be a bit more unique as they may have differing interests than the norm.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Something to the extent of 60% introverted/30% extroverted. Either extreme is a headache.
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As with everything in life, balance is key. A girl who is too introverted is going to be boring because you'd have nothing to talk to her about and a girl who is too extroverted is going to be annoying and an attention wh0re.SamTheHobit said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.