"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you plan on having kids?

Do you plan on having kids?

  • Yes

    Votes: 22 47.8%
  • No

    Votes: 12 26.1%
  • I dont know

    Votes: 11 23.9%
  • Depends on my wife

    Votes: 1 2.2%

  • Total voters
    46

Hot Ice

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Well, you should only marry when you are ready to throw your sex life to trash bin... ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Climax

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huh?

Originally posted by Hot Ice
Well, you should only marry when you are ready to throw your sex life to trash bin... ;)
wtf are u smoking? cause i would REALLY like to try it sometime;)

why would u say that ur sex life will "suck" or "get thrown into the trash" when u get married? :confused:
 

PoloBlue

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I have no plans on ever having any kids, I dont want all the responsibility it takes and I really dont like kids, life is so much more enjoyable without a family. Im not rich and probably never will be, raising a family costs too much money, too much stuff to worry about.
 

Hot Ice

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Re: huh?

Originally posted by aequitas
wtf are u smoking? cause i would REALLY like to try it sometime;)

why would u say that ur sex life will "suck" or "get thrown into the trash" when u get married? :confused:
Dunno. Wait for the older guys to answer and you'll know.
 

il_duce

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I'm not getting married until I'm at least 30, and I don't think I'll ever have more than 2 kids.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OzyBoy

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I need a partner first - that would help. I guess that is my girlfriend. I love you.
 
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Spike_the_Dragon

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I can't really see myself raising a child. Kids love me, they look at me like I'm superman or something... but I'm way too damn young to even think about it at this point in time.

Besides, I don't really know any one woman whom I could actually invest my life in. I'd have way too much to lose by committing myself to a woman for the rest of my adult life... the thought of marriage honestly scares me right out of my skin.:eek:


You guys remember that song from when we were kids: "first comes love, then comes marriage, etc." That **** still terrifies the living **** out of me!:(
 
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