"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do you plan on having kids?
- Thread starter Climax
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wtf are u smoking? cause i would REALLY like to try it sometimeOriginally posted by Hot Ice
Well, you should only marry when you are ready to throw your sex life to trash bin...
why would u say that ur sex life will "suck" or "get thrown into the trash" when u get married?
Dunno. Wait for the older guys to answer and you'll know.Originally posted by aequitas
wtf are u smoking? cause i would REALLY like to try it sometime
why would u say that ur sex life will "suck" or "get thrown into the trash" when u get married?
il_duce
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Besides, I don't really know any one woman whom I could actually invest my life in. I'd have way too much to lose by committing myself to a woman for the rest of my adult life... the thought of marriage honestly scares me right out of my skin.
You guys remember that song from when we were kids: "first comes love, then comes marriage, etc." That **** still terrifies the living **** out of me!