A bit bitter.
The unattractive overweight woman doesn't get the peanut. She gets upset.
On whether or not to pay, I really think it depends.
I would agree that a first date should be cheap.
I mean, I think there's something to be said for the rapport you've built with this girl. I wouldn't say you can have a rule for every situation.
It almost seems adversarial, whether or not you pay. If a woman rushes to judgement because you haven't grabbed her tab, but--with all other things considered--the date went well, then maybe tell her to go fvck herself.
Honestly, for me, when on a first date, the end goal really affects the way I behave--to an extent. Believe me, you can judge potential long term material fairly easily--if you know what you're looking for. If you're just shooting to bang, which becomes the case more often than not, I guess it really depends on your GAME more than anything. Paying for something won't get you pvssy, unless you're paying for pvssy; an oxymoron? In the end, even if it works, you're still paying for pvssy.
The point being this: if your game isn't on par, it really doesn't matter if you pay or not. It just doesn't matter.
If your decision to pay--as I mentioned above--really resonates with her more than how much she wants to bang you, you've done something wrong (and it's not whether you paid or not).
All that being said, I mentioned a case where it's someone you think you might want to keep. The exact same argument applies, right? Do you want to pay for pvssy all your life?
It's more about _why_ you're paying for it. If you are paying because it's custom, tradition, or you're too big of a pvssy not to, maybe think about what you want out of the situation.
If you can't coax them into your bed, you can definitely pay them. A girl with money won't respect you, and a girl without money will suck you dry--literally and figuratively.
Cheers.
