"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Do you notice this too?

John_Taylor

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Keeper

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2004
Messages
503
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
South Africa
Nope. I pretty much get the same results whatever medium I go in. 75% success more or less.
 
Joined
Aug 8, 2005
Messages
1,063
Reaction score
5
Age
39
Location
The Cold North.
John_Taylor said:
I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
Soooo... you are saying what?

That a non-personal invite by say... email is more likely to get rejected than by actually asking someone more "in person"?

WELL DuH!!

Gee. I WONDER why that is?
 

Phat

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
382
Reaction score
1
Girls like a guy with balls and who can ask them out to there face.
 
Top