"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you notice this too?

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I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nope. I pretty much get the same results whatever medium I go in. 75% success more or less.
 
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John_Taylor said:
I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
Soooo... you are saying what?

That a non-personal invite by say... email is more likely to get rejected than by actually asking someone more "in person"?

WELL DuH!!

Gee. I WONDER why that is?
 

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Girls like a guy with balls and who can ask them out to there face.
 
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