"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you notice this too?

John_Taylor

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I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nope. I pretty much get the same results whatever medium I go in. 75% success more or less.
 
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John_Taylor said:
I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
Soooo... you are saying what?

That a non-personal invite by say... email is more likely to get rejected than by actually asking someone more "in person"?

WELL DuH!!

Gee. I WONDER why that is?
 

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Girls like a guy with balls and who can ask them out to there face.
 
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