"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you notice this too?

John_Taylor

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I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nope. I pretty much get the same results whatever medium I go in. 75% success more or less.
 
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John_Taylor said:
I was wondering if this is the same for you.

I find when if I ask a girl out say by email or something (anything text), my response rates are ridicoulously low.

If I ask anyone out on the phone, I haven't heard very many of them say no to my face.

Do you notice the same pattern?
Soooo... you are saying what?

That a non-personal invite by say... email is more likely to get rejected than by actually asking someone more "in person"?

WELL DuH!!

Gee. I WONDER why that is?
 

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Girls like a guy with balls and who can ask them out to there face.
 
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