"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you need a hot fit body to get girls to screw on the spot

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well i can tell you when i was fit i got laid a hell of a lot more than once my stomach started sticking out in my t-shirts. not that the girls didn't like me but it was almost as if they saw me as more of a friend when i had a gut & just wanted to bone me when i was "hot" hahaha i love this thread but it is true your face will get you farther i guess
 

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I think muscles matter more than a 6 pack. Like someone else said, unless you're at the beach, women don't see six packs unless you're already in the position to get laid and have your clothes off. Big arms/shoulders though are a big turn on to most women, and which is why I am signing up for the gym. I have scrawny arms...and my face, while not ugly, is not good enough to make up for that fact. My brother has scrawny arms, but he's 6'4'' and has a 9/10 face (to women)...so he's naturally hot and the lack of muscles don't matter. For a 6/7 like myself, it means nothing, and I want to make myself an 8 or better with huge arms and shoulders.

People will also respect me more in general and look at me as more of a man.

Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
 

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runningonice said:
Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
You haven't been watching guys with true game, then.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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