"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you need a hot fit body to get girls to screw on the spot

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well i can tell you when i was fit i got laid a hell of a lot more than once my stomach started sticking out in my t-shirts. not that the girls didn't like me but it was almost as if they saw me as more of a friend when i had a gut & just wanted to bone me when i was "hot" hahaha i love this thread but it is true your face will get you farther i guess
 

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I think muscles matter more than a 6 pack. Like someone else said, unless you're at the beach, women don't see six packs unless you're already in the position to get laid and have your clothes off. Big arms/shoulders though are a big turn on to most women, and which is why I am signing up for the gym. I have scrawny arms...and my face, while not ugly, is not good enough to make up for that fact. My brother has scrawny arms, but he's 6'4'' and has a 9/10 face (to women)...so he's naturally hot and the lack of muscles don't matter. For a 6/7 like myself, it means nothing, and I want to make myself an 8 or better with huge arms and shoulders.

People will also respect me more in general and look at me as more of a man.

Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
 

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runningonice said:
Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
You haven't been watching guys with true game, then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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