"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you need a hot fit body to get girls to screw on the spot

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well i can tell you when i was fit i got laid a hell of a lot more than once my stomach started sticking out in my t-shirts. not that the girls didn't like me but it was almost as if they saw me as more of a friend when i had a gut & just wanted to bone me when i was "hot" hahaha i love this thread but it is true your face will get you farther i guess
 

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I think muscles matter more than a 6 pack. Like someone else said, unless you're at the beach, women don't see six packs unless you're already in the position to get laid and have your clothes off. Big arms/shoulders though are a big turn on to most women, and which is why I am signing up for the gym. I have scrawny arms...and my face, while not ugly, is not good enough to make up for that fact. My brother has scrawny arms, but he's 6'4'' and has a 9/10 face (to women)...so he's naturally hot and the lack of muscles don't matter. For a 6/7 like myself, it means nothing, and I want to make myself an 8 or better with huge arms and shoulders.

People will also respect me more in general and look at me as more of a man.

Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
 

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runningonice said:
Anyone who says "look don't matter, game does" is just fooling himself. If you have really really good game you can play the numbers game and experience some success, but the average cute/hot girl doesn't care that your game is tight unless she's a slut that you could have f***ed anyway.
You haven't been watching guys with true game, then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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