"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you necessarily have to be high value to pull party girls in college?

jaymbrs

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Disagree, I found college to be the toughest because what frat you were in and what crews you ran with meant everything. Most of the times I found that the girls that looked above average went for athletes and frat bros. College is the toughest time for most guys because social status matters more than it ever will at any point in your life. Not sure where you went to college but it is not the case at most major party schools in the US.
I know what you're talking about since I wasn't part of the greek life and def witnessed how incredibly drawn girls were to them. But you were also probably aiming too high. Sometimes settling for a 6 was all I needed and they were in abundance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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I know what you're talking about since I wasn't part of the greek life and def witnessed how incredibly drawn girls were to them. But you were also probably aiming too high. Sometimes settling for a 6 was all I needed and they were in abundance.
Drawn to someone just cause of a club. Shows you how suggestible they are.
 
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