"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you necessarily have to be high value to pull party girls in college?

jaymbrs

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Disagree, I found college to be the toughest because what frat you were in and what crews you ran with meant everything. Most of the times I found that the girls that looked above average went for athletes and frat bros. College is the toughest time for most guys because social status matters more than it ever will at any point in your life. Not sure where you went to college but it is not the case at most major party schools in the US.
I know what you're talking about since I wasn't part of the greek life and def witnessed how incredibly drawn girls were to them. But you were also probably aiming too high. Sometimes settling for a 6 was all I needed and they were in abundance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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I know what you're talking about since I wasn't part of the greek life and def witnessed how incredibly drawn girls were to them. But you were also probably aiming too high. Sometimes settling for a 6 was all I needed and they were in abundance.
Drawn to someone just cause of a club. Shows you how suggestible they are.
 
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