Do you necessarily have to be high value to pull party girls in college?

[nicksaiz65]

I’m just wondering, cause I’m just a normal dude really, although I do have my cool aspects and hobbies. I’m not on the football team or anything like that. Am I totally out of luck with these party girls or can I still do it?

Sorry for two back to back questions like this, just trying to kill all of the last doubts in my head.

 

[marmel75]

Dude what is your obsession with "party girls"?

 

[Billtx49]

Obviously both men and women explore their sexual avenues once they’re out from under the parents. Party or nonparty, it Doesn’t matter… Take advantage of the opportunities as they arise. Some of the easiest lays of my life were at a university…

 

[nicksaiz65]

Dude what is your obsession with "party girls"?

Just trying to ascend the quality of the girls I get with. And every single one of them that I like are huge on parties

 

[marmel75]

Just trying to ascend the quality of the girls I get with. And every single one of them that I like are huge on parties

No offense but your quality is going into the trash can if that's what you are looking for.

 

[nicksaiz65]

No offense but your quality is going into the trash can if that's what you are looking for.

A lot of them are really sh*tty personality wise, I’d totally agree. But they’re also usually the best looking which is kind of irking lol

 

[marmel75]

A lot of them are really sh*tty personality wise, I’d totally agree. But they’re also usually the best looking which is kind of irking lol

Hotness does not equal quality.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Hotness does not equal quality.

That is a valid point, true quality is insanely hard to find though

 

[jaymbrs]

You're 21. Have you not attended any of these parties yet? If not, get on it dude. House parties are the easiest ways to get girls. I once got head in the kitchen of a house party with people standing around. Dirty sluts everywhere.

 

[Von]

Dude:

1. Its college
2. Its party
3. Everyone young and drinking.

All you need is GAME!

What's Game?

1. Approach
2. Be fun (some humour, good frame, unneedy, join the party, contribute to it, make some emotional connection)
3. Kino
4. Go for the close (phone, kiss, lay).
5. Stay confident and be Social with others (girl and boys)

University/College is the easiest and best time to meet girls, have sex, work hard-play hard, learn schedule management, not give a f!ck about "social value" .

The only social value you need is:
1. Be fun
2. Be where the action is, with the people who make the action / go to the action
3. Be confident to ask the girl out

Alot of girls just want a fling (ONS) or a "sex-buddy study partner" at university. Especially the party girls.

What you do?
1. Talk to people in your class (networking/socialize)... Maybe 5 to 10 people per class
2. Find out where the parties are, what kind of party, who organizes it
3. Join some club (they make event, so you create the party, its good socializing and social value)
4. Go to events
5. Talk to girl

Note: you can bring friends too, you should invite people to join you, or/and you go solo.. And approach solo or in team. You dont have to hang around the people that joined you/you went with.
If you go with people, make some game plan.
If you go solo, make friends at the event (hey whatsupp, what bring you here, this party looks awese, i came solo, i am new in town, you guys too? You guys come to these often? My name is X can i join you guys?... )... From there they will introduce and be cool (dont hit on their girl right away, you want them to be allies/friend/social proof)

The "only" asset that might make you "higher" value: it's having your own place (alone is better but with roomate is good too).

Parties are usually: beginning semestre, hallowee, end of semestre. That's where people are the most friendly too.

Your college/university might have it's own bar. Go to it, especially on "party night" .... Ours was every Thursday.... All the "cool involved students in the student life-all the students looking for a ONS-people from your courses(good opportunité to socialize).

Have fun, you are in gold mine

 

[nicksaiz65]

You're 21. Have you not attended any of these parties yet? If not, get on it dude. House parties are the easiest ways to get girls. I once got head in the kitchen of a house party with people standing around. Dirty sluts everywhere.

I definitely have. I’m just working on getting more comfortable in that environment. I guess my question is if I get their number at said party, would a Day game Approach work from there?

 

[jaymbrs]

I definitely have. I’m just working on getting more comfortable in that environment. I guess my question is if I get their number at said party, would a Day game Approach work from there?

Depends in what state she was in when you got the number. If she was drunk, prob not. She more than likely wouldn't even remember who you are the next day. If she was sober, and ya'll had a nice conversation about non superficial things, then yea maybe.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Dude:

1. Its college
2. Its party
3. Everyone young and drinking.

All you need is GAME!

What's Game?

1. Approach
2. Be fun (some humour, good frame, unneedy, join the party, contribute to it, make some emotional connection)
3. Kino
4. Go for the close (phone, kiss, lay).
5. Stay confident and be Social with others (girl and boys)

University/College is the easiest and best time to meet girls, have sex, work hard-play hard, learn schedule management, not give a f!ck about "social value" .

The only social value you need is:
1. Be fun
2. Be where the action is, with the people who make the action / go to the action
3. Be confident to ask the girl out

Alot of girls just want a fling (ONS) or a "sex-buddy study partner" at university. Especially the party girls.

What you do?
1. Talk to people in your class (networking/socialize)... Maybe 5 to 10 people per class
2. Find out where the parties are, what kind of party, who organizes it
3. Join some club (they make event, so you create the party, its good socializing and social value)
4. Go to events
5. Talk to girl

Note: you can bring friends too, you should invite people to join you, or/and you go solo.. And approach solo or in team. You dont have to hang around the people that joined you/you went with.
If you go with people, make some game plan.
If you go solo, make friends at the event

Great concise definition of college game

 

[nicksaiz65]

Depends in what state she was in when you got the number. If she was drunk, prob not. She more than likely wouldn't even remember who you are the next day. If she was sober, and ya'll had a nice conversation about non superficial things, then yea maybe.

I guess that’s why they say it’s better to hook up right then and there if possible.

 

[jaymbrs]

I guess that’s why they say it’s better to hook up right then and there if possible.

Exactly.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Exactly.

How do you go about doing that, though? Tbh I’ve never managed to pull a girl directly from a party. Only daygame type situations

 

[jaymbrs]

How do you go about doing that, though? Tbh I’ve never managed to pull a girl directly from a party. Only daygame type situations

Get one to be your partner in a drinking game. Have fun playing the game, make fun of her a little bit. Keep everything as light as possible. Then find out where she lives. Offer her a ride home or ask her if she wants to come back to your place to see your awesome music collection. Just make something up.

 

[Papa_smu]

How do you go about doing that, though? Tbh I’ve never managed to pull a girl directly from a party. Only daygame type situations

Just be straightforward and ask. She'll let you know if you're doing things right.

 

[drakeisfire]

University/College is the easiest and best time to meet girls, have sex, work hard-play hard, learn schedule management, not give a f!ck about "social value" .

Disagree, I found college to be the toughest because what frat you were in and what crews you ran with meant everything. Most of the times I found that the girls that looked above average went for athletes and frat bros. College is the toughest time for most guys because social status matters more than it ever will at any point in your life. Not sure where you went to college but it is not the case at most major party schools in the US.

 

[IKO69]

You have to be high value (in life) to simply PULL, not just college.