Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
do you mog him?
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hah blindfolded, with one hand tied behind my back he’s a total dork face.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BillyPilgrim
Master Don Juan
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This phucker helped get a lesbo khunt "elected" in my state
He's as handsome as he is innocent. Jailed man walking.
Question is, will Bubba think he's hot? Answer - nah. Bankman will be sipping champagne in Tel Aviv.
He's as handsome as he is innocent. Jailed man walking.
Question is, will Bubba think he's hot? Answer - nah. Bankman will be sipping champagne in Tel Aviv.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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What's up with those pecs in the first photo?
Muscle + too high %bf = moobs.
Muscle + too high %bf = moobs.
threeforfree
Senior Don Juan
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Hyphenated name. LOL