The attitude of this site seems to be that women are lesser than men (may or may not be true on average). I'm wondering how many of you guys actually love your girlfriends, rather than simply simply gaming them till you get bored. How much would you compromise to be with her?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
do you love your girlfriend?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not wanting to game her. Putting her needs at equal importance to yours. Being willing to sacrifice to make the relationship stronger. Loosing interest in other women, both physically and emotionally. Lately I've found that I look at other girls less, and don't fantasize about anyone BUT my gf. Women who used to be attractive to me just aren't anymore, except for my gf who gives me a hardon just thinking about her. 
Geez, I thought everybody knew what love is!
Geez, I thought everybody knew what love is!
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
*snickers*
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mofro said:Not wanting to game her. Putting her needs at equal importance to yours. Being willing to sacrifice to make the relationship stronger. Loosing interest in other women, both physically and emotionally. Lately I've found that I look at other girls less, and don't fantasize about anyone BUT my gf. Women who used to be attractive to me just aren't anymore, except for my gf who gives me a hardon just thinking about her.
Exactly what I was like with my ex. Thats love man.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I love my girlfriend, but that doesn't mean that I am dead and don't look at other girls.
I do really love my girlfriend and will NOT cheat on her. I have too much respect for her and she trusts me absolutely.
comic_relief
I do really love my girlfriend and will NOT cheat on her. I have too much respect for her and she trusts me absolutely.
comic_relief
spoken like a true dj^....I have my times when i do and times when I dont.... I still game because I dont want to be a Chump if she cheats on me. I dont want to be alll BOOHOO crying wanting to die because she left me I just want to be indifferent about it and when she says lets see other people just pick up my phone and call the next canidate and ask her over to MY house tonight all in front of my X.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
do you love your girlfriend?
Maybe, but I am never going to let her find out!
Maybe, but I am never going to let her find out!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do you realize how stupid that sounds? You're not going to let her find out? Really? Are you a fvcking moron? You think if you tell her how you feel she's going to leave you? "OMG MY B/F TOLD ME HE LOVES ME, I'M SOOOO LEAVING!!11oneone"
The majority of the people on this forum are completely clueless and brainwashed to the point of no return.
The majority of the people on this forum are completely clueless and brainwashed to the point of no return.
I love my girlfriend. I love it when she's happy, and I value her very highly on many levels. But I don't need to be with her for my own happiness, and if she decides she wants to stop seeing me or I decide vice versa, I'm confident that a woman similarly well matched to my personality, intellect, sex drive and demand for black lace and summer dresses will be right around the corner. So, does this mean I'm deficient in some respect? Who knows. I'm a one woman at a time guy, but not a one woman guy. Important difference I reckon.
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Totally agree, when I was young I was in a relationship for a year with a girl I loved and was tooo affraid to say it. Got kicked in the teeth for that didn't I.Snowman23 said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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YEAH! Dumn fvcks!!! :cuss: Everyone should know that love has nothing to do with these things being mutual! You can feel all of these things and love her even if she treats you like a chump and sees other guys (such as Franciscomofro said:Not wanting to game her. Putting her needs at equal importance to yours. Being willing to sacrifice to make the relationship stronger. Loosing interest in other women, both physically and emotionally. Lately I've found that I look at other girls less, and don't fantasize about anyone BUT my gf. Women who used to be attractive to me just aren't anymore, except for my gf who gives me a hardon just thinking about her.
Geez, I thought everybody knew what love is!
) behind your back! :woo:"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
In other words, isn't love like oneitis?
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Nope, I don't love her. I'm only with her to kill time until I find someone better. It's been like that for a long time.
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Snowman23 said:
Fine with me. Everyone thinks like that.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
fwiw, the gf I am thinking of has been with me about a week. That changes a lot. I actually started a thread once with a poll on how long you wait until saying 'I love you' to a gf. Most guys said 3-6 months, or when they felt it was mutual, although I think about 20% answered 'never.'Snowman23 said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.