"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you like chicks with tats?

How do you feel about chicks w/ink?

  • I love chicks with tats, it's hot and shows they've got personality.

    Votes: 9 19.6%
  • Eh, take it or leave it.

    Votes: 13 28.3%
  • I'm not a big fan but girls with tats are a rarity these days so I live with it.

    Votes: 8 17.4%
  • Can't stand it. It's skanky and unoriginal, not to mention it gives them a used car feel.

    Votes: 16 34.8%

  • Total voters
    46

Jaxon

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How do you feel about chicks with tats? Does it turn you on/off? Neither? Does it make you think she's independent with some personality, or maybe just a skanky unoriginal ho?

Personally I can't stand tats on girls. If I'm with a hot chick I'd rather be looking at their skin rather than some cheezy unoriginal ink. Not only that but to me it makes them look all used.

What's your take on broads with tats?

(Option 3 Should read "girls withOUT tats are a rarity...")
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This new girl I am seeing rolled over on the bed and had a huge red and green snake tattoo with a demonic head with horns from the top of her neck twisting down to the small of her butt.

Freaked me the hell out. I don't know what to think about it.
 

Jaxon

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Heh, can't blame you. Probably hard to tell if it was a phase she went through or if it ties to some crazy belief system she has. If it were me I'd just use it for target practice and call it good! :rockon:
 

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Covered in em?

Hell no. That is skanky and unoriginal.

One really good one that shows she cared about quality and long lasting appeal?

For sure.

The new chick you are with seems like she would pass and be alright by my standards.
 

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They look tacky, in my opinion.

Girls who get them usually like to think of themselves as rebels (to varying degrees), which I'm not into at all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed. Not wifey material at all...especially tramp stamps.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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suavesuave

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it looks really bad and give them a bad image. too gettho for me.
 

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Depends on how many she has. One or two small ones is cool with me, especially on or near her ass.
 

SmoothTalker

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I hate them, makes the girl seem trashy and the vast majority are not the least bit original. Not to mention most girls end up regretting them quite soon, and there's not a thing you can do about it.

The most I would be okay with a girl having is something small, cute and meaningful somewhere private, like her hip or chest. And even then I'd be okay with it, not thrilled.
 

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I love tramp stamps so much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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theunflushables

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Outside of the tramp stamp, which every woman has now a days. I love women with tattoos

I mean, who wouldn't find this woman hot (NSFW or people under the age of 18) http://www.inkedmag.com/static/images/articles/inkedgirl/2007/kilduff.jpg



However, this one I'd be scared of! (again NSFW or people under the age of 18)

http://www.dalmenweb.it/421v.jpg

Probably the hottest tattoo I've ever seen on a woman was sparrows like this
(Safe for work and youngins')

http://images.google.com/imgres?img...s&start=126&gbv=2&ndsp=18&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N
 

ScrewIt

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theunflushables said:
Outside of the tramp stamp, which every woman has now a days. I love women with tattoos

I mean, who wouldn't find this woman hot (NSFW or people under the age of 18) http://www.inkedmag.com/static/images/articles/inkedgirl/2007/kilduff.jpg



However, this one I'd be scared of! (again NSFW or people under the age of 18)

http://www.dalmenweb.it/421v.jpg

Probably the hottest tattoo I've ever seen on a woman was sparrows like this
(Safe for work and youngins')

http://images.google.com/imgres?img...s&start=126&gbv=2&ndsp=18&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N
the 2nd to last one was wicked..

Anyway I live in NY, and about 70% girls here have tattoos, so it's extremely common here to meet a girl with a visible or hidden tattoo. Though most girls here have a small/tiny one either on their hand/arm/shoulder/back/leg. Half my female co-workers have some form of tattoo, and I have one also. So it's safe to say I think it's a social norm thing, it's so common here that it's acceptable and not viewed as a skanky/slutty kind of thing. Though I have to admit though, an over-abundance of tattoos on a girl I view as a lack of sophistication...a small one here or there is very very attractive.

As for personality..I know girls with and w/o tatoos and it's about the same.
 

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im not gonna say that tats are tacky and unoriginal, but i think the way it'll typically go is if you're a guy who has tats (or is okay with getting them) then you won't mind a girl with some

on the flip side those guys who wouldn't want tattoos themselves probably won't go for chicks with them

long story short: its more about how you feel about tattoos in general and not so much how they look on girls (that could've been my post right there). plus i walk through the streets of LA quite a bit and rarely (by rarely i mean never) do i see a couple where the girl was the only one with a tat, it was either the guy had one or they both had them.

P.S: this is my first post! been a long time reader and just registered yesterday!
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I always found the tramp stamp to be a symbol of white trash.
Tramp stamps aren't caucasian exclusive. All breeds come with em.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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