“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you like chicks with tats?

How do you feel about chicks w/ink?

  • I love chicks with tats, it's hot and shows they've got personality.

    Votes: 9 19.6%
  • Eh, take it or leave it.

    Votes: 13 28.3%
  • I'm not a big fan but girls with tats are a rarity these days so I live with it.

    Votes: 8 17.4%
  • Can't stand it. It's skanky and unoriginal, not to mention it gives them a used car feel.

    Votes: 16 34.8%

  • Total voters
    46

Jaxon

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How do you feel about chicks with tats? Does it turn you on/off? Neither? Does it make you think she's independent with some personality, or maybe just a skanky unoriginal ho?

Personally I can't stand tats on girls. If I'm with a hot chick I'd rather be looking at their skin rather than some cheezy unoriginal ink. Not only that but to me it makes them look all used.

What's your take on broads with tats?

(Option 3 Should read "girls withOUT tats are a rarity...")
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This new girl I am seeing rolled over on the bed and had a huge red and green snake tattoo with a demonic head with horns from the top of her neck twisting down to the small of her butt.

Freaked me the hell out. I don't know what to think about it.
 

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Heh, can't blame you. Probably hard to tell if it was a phase she went through or if it ties to some crazy belief system she has. If it were me I'd just use it for target practice and call it good! :rockon:
 

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Covered in em?

Hell no. That is skanky and unoriginal.

One really good one that shows she cared about quality and long lasting appeal?

For sure.

The new chick you are with seems like she would pass and be alright by my standards.
 

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They look tacky, in my opinion.

Girls who get them usually like to think of themselves as rebels (to varying degrees), which I'm not into at all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agreed. Not wifey material at all...especially tramp stamps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it looks really bad and give them a bad image. too gettho for me.
 

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Depends on how many she has. One or two small ones is cool with me, especially on or near her ass.
 

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I hate them, makes the girl seem trashy and the vast majority are not the least bit original. Not to mention most girls end up regretting them quite soon, and there's not a thing you can do about it.

The most I would be okay with a girl having is something small, cute and meaningful somewhere private, like her hip or chest. And even then I'd be okay with it, not thrilled.
 

Flabbergasped?

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I love tramp stamps so much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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theunflushables

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Outside of the tramp stamp, which every woman has now a days. I love women with tattoos

I mean, who wouldn't find this woman hot (NSFW or people under the age of 18) http://www.inkedmag.com/static/images/articles/inkedgirl/2007/kilduff.jpg



However, this one I'd be scared of! (again NSFW or people under the age of 18)

http://www.dalmenweb.it/421v.jpg

Probably the hottest tattoo I've ever seen on a woman was sparrows like this
(Safe for work and youngins')

http://images.google.com/imgres?img...s&start=126&gbv=2&ndsp=18&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N
 

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theunflushables said:
Outside of the tramp stamp, which every woman has now a days. I love women with tattoos

I mean, who wouldn't find this woman hot (NSFW or people under the age of 18) http://www.inkedmag.com/static/images/articles/inkedgirl/2007/kilduff.jpg



However, this one I'd be scared of! (again NSFW or people under the age of 18)

http://www.dalmenweb.it/421v.jpg

Probably the hottest tattoo I've ever seen on a woman was sparrows like this
(Safe for work and youngins')

http://images.google.com/imgres?img...s&start=126&gbv=2&ndsp=18&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N
the 2nd to last one was wicked..

Anyway I live in NY, and about 70% girls here have tattoos, so it's extremely common here to meet a girl with a visible or hidden tattoo. Though most girls here have a small/tiny one either on their hand/arm/shoulder/back/leg. Half my female co-workers have some form of tattoo, and I have one also. So it's safe to say I think it's a social norm thing, it's so common here that it's acceptable and not viewed as a skanky/slutty kind of thing. Though I have to admit though, an over-abundance of tattoos on a girl I view as a lack of sophistication...a small one here or there is very very attractive.

As for personality..I know girls with and w/o tatoos and it's about the same.
 

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im not gonna say that tats are tacky and unoriginal, but i think the way it'll typically go is if you're a guy who has tats (or is okay with getting them) then you won't mind a girl with some

on the flip side those guys who wouldn't want tattoos themselves probably won't go for chicks with them

long story short: its more about how you feel about tattoos in general and not so much how they look on girls (that could've been my post right there). plus i walk through the streets of LA quite a bit and rarely (by rarely i mean never) do i see a couple where the girl was the only one with a tat, it was either the guy had one or they both had them.

P.S: this is my first post! been a long time reader and just registered yesterday!
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I always found the tramp stamp to be a symbol of white trash.
Tramp stamps aren't caucasian exclusive. All breeds come with em.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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