"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you lift/workout at night or in the morning?

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Best workouts are fasted workouts.
Wake up, drink coffee, drink some jym pre workout
Go to the gym workout fasted
Drink a protein shake and add some creatine
Starve for a few hours eat lunch
Close your eating window at 8 and max 9 pm
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best workouts are fasted workouts.
Wake up, drink coffee, drink some jym pre workout
Go to the gym workout fasted
Drink a protein shake and add some creatine
Starve for a few hours eat lunch
Close your eating window at 8 and max 9 pm
I can't do fasting, or at least it wouldn't help me out. I have a freak of nature metabolism and am always around 10-15% bodyfat and was an endurance athlete. I have to force feed heavily to put on mass.
 
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I can't do fasting, or at least it wouldn't help me out. I have a freak of nature metabolism and am always around 10-15% bodyfat and was an endurance athlete. I have to force feed heavily to put on mass.
I used to think like you. I think it’s an excuse. I have a high metabolism. It’s a limiting belief you have created for yourself. You can put on mass by taking creatine and also pre-jym, and follow up a nice program - like body beast or Jym Size.

fasting is the only key
 

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I always recommend people to go to the gym the first thing in the day. Learn to wake up a little early so you can start the day with that task done. Sometimes you have a very busy day and you end up having to postpone a workout. When you start the day at the gym, you’re already set.
 

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I used to think like you. I think it’s an excuse. I have a high metabolism. It’s a limiting belief you have created for yourself. You can put on mass by taking creatine and also pre-jym, and follow up a nice program - like body beast or Jym Size.

fasting is the only key
yeah no i'm good man. I know what works for my body it isn't some excuse, maybe in the future i'd consider it. I'm not having any issues putting on mass and i'm consistently going up on all my lifts. I'm on top of my diet and supplements (creatine included) .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always recommend people to go to the gym the first thing in the day. Learn to wake up a little early so you can start the day with that task done. Sometimes you have a very busy day and you end up having to postpone a workout. When you start the day at the gym, you’re already set.
Why? What if your workouts are better at night and you feel better for doing so?

And who cares if you miss a workout, do it the next day. Consistency week to week, month to month is what matters, not whether you miss a day or two on occasion.
 

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Why? What if your workouts are better at night and you feel better for doing so?

And who cares if you miss a workout, do it the next day. Consistency week to week, month to month is what matters, not whether you miss a day or two on occasion.
you’re proving my point. Consistency is key. And it’s easier to maintain it when you do it first in the day. A single day you miss can lead to another and another when you get very busy. When you realize you’re not hitting the gym anymore.
 

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you’re proving my point. Consistency is key. And it’s easier to maintain it when you do it first in the day. A single day you miss can lead to another and another when you get very busy. When you realize you’re not hitting the gym anymore.
Most people who are "too busy" are actually just terrible at time management and try to multitask constantly which impairs their performance across the board. Maybe your advice works for the masses though.
 

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I do cardio in the morning at 5:00AM. I feel energised then for work. After work I do powerlifting on 4 days a week usually around 3PM. The science does seem to support this approach due to hormone production. You would have to do some reading as I lack the expertise and/ or time to explain it well enough.
 

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^^
3PM is my favorite time to hit the gym. I also do powerlifting 3X/week so I hate skipping a single day.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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