Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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do you lie to get in a girls pants?

blackwolf

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this is gonna sound crazy and stupid but ive been texting a lot of old dates and fuks ive had in the past as i still have their number in my old phone. its quite funny to read their replies cause some i havent spoken to in a year or more. question is, do you guys lie to girls to get in their pants? just by doing this ive gotten a few girls interest back up (maybe im a good liar) and have been texting a few girls back n forth all night. i think ive got a date lined up with an old ex too. the truth really is that im bored and need action. sitting at home alone nothing to do gets you doing crazy things. i didnt care if they rejected me. its pretty funny to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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synergy1

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yes, I tell them I am a virgin and am waiting until marriage.
 

Mike32ct

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I lie about my age indirectly. I don't bring it up, but if she asks my age, I tell her to guess. They usually guess on the low side because I look late 20s, early 30s tops. I then lie and say "Good guess."

For a relationship, I believe in being honest. But for a one night stand, lie your a&s off lol.
 

DJ Logic

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I'm not proud of this but I used to rent a Porsche to go clubbing and tell chicks that I was the tycoon of an internet startup. Easiest pvssy ever. I didn't feel too guilty though. Someone has to put these gold diggers in their place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends on what the lie is. I'll tell a girl I'm dating that when I'm home doing nothing I'm actually hanging out with friends so I seem to have more of a life than I actually do.
 

loveshogun

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blackwolf said:
the truth really is that im bored and need action.
I like addressing the problems behind the questions, so excuse me if this sounds harsh.

Do you have a job? Get one.

Do you have hobbies that you care about? Get those too.

If I were to start texting exes about anything, whether it's borrowing a loaf of bread or asking where my DVD of Predator is, that would be a wake-up call about the sad state of affairs in my life.

Stop talking to your exes, and women that you weren't interested in enough to call in the first place. If you have to get your rocks off, get your rocks off, and come back when you have a real question.
 
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