this is gonna sound crazy and stupid but ive been texting a lot of old dates and fuks ive had in the past as i still have their number in my old phone. its quite funny to read their replies cause some i havent spoken to in a year or more. question is, do you guys lie to girls to get in their pants? just by doing this ive gotten a few girls interest back up (maybe im a good liar) and have been texting a few girls back n forth all night. i think ive got a date lined up with an old ex too. the truth really is that im bored and need action. sitting at home alone nothing to do gets you doing crazy things. i didnt care if they rejected me. its pretty funny to me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
do you lie to get in a girls pants?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Mike32ct
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I lie about my age indirectly. I don't bring it up, but if she asks my age, I tell her to guess. They usually guess on the low side because I look late 20s, early 30s tops. I then lie and say "Good guess."
For a relationship, I believe in being honest. But for a one night stand, lie your a&s off lol.
For a relationship, I believe in being honest. But for a one night stand, lie your a&s off lol.
powpow
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This is so well said.Mike32ct said:For a relationship, I believe in being honest. But for a one night stand, lie your a&s off lol.
I'm not proud of this but I used to rent a Porsche to go clubbing and tell chicks that I was the tycoon of an internet startup. Easiest pvssy ever. I didn't feel too guilty though. Someone has to put these gold diggers in their place.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Depends on what the lie is. I'll tell a girl I'm dating that when I'm home doing nothing I'm actually hanging out with friends so I seem to have more of a life than I actually do.
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I like addressing the problems behind the questions, so excuse me if this sounds harsh.blackwolf said:the truth really is that im bored and need action.
Do you have a job? Get one.
Do you have hobbies that you care about? Get those too.
If I were to start texting exes about anything, whether it's borrowing a loaf of bread or asking where my DVD of Predator is, that would be a wake-up call about the sad state of affairs in my life.
Stop talking to your exes, and women that you weren't interested in enough to call in the first place. If you have to get your rocks off, get your rocks off, and come back when you have a real question.