"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you lie to get in a girls pants?

blackwolf

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this is gonna sound crazy and stupid but ive been texting a lot of old dates and fuks ive had in the past as i still have their number in my old phone. its quite funny to read their replies cause some i havent spoken to in a year or more. question is, do you guys lie to girls to get in their pants? just by doing this ive gotten a few girls interest back up (maybe im a good liar) and have been texting a few girls back n forth all night. i think ive got a date lined up with an old ex too. the truth really is that im bored and need action. sitting at home alone nothing to do gets you doing crazy things. i didnt care if they rejected me. its pretty funny to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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synergy1

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yes, I tell them I am a virgin and am waiting until marriage.
 

Mike32ct

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I lie about my age indirectly. I don't bring it up, but if she asks my age, I tell her to guess. They usually guess on the low side because I look late 20s, early 30s tops. I then lie and say "Good guess."

For a relationship, I believe in being honest. But for a one night stand, lie your a&s off lol.
 

DJ Logic

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I'm not proud of this but I used to rent a Porsche to go clubbing and tell chicks that I was the tycoon of an internet startup. Easiest pvssy ever. I didn't feel too guilty though. Someone has to put these gold diggers in their place.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depends on what the lie is. I'll tell a girl I'm dating that when I'm home doing nothing I'm actually hanging out with friends so I seem to have more of a life than I actually do.
 

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blackwolf said:
the truth really is that im bored and need action.
I like addressing the problems behind the questions, so excuse me if this sounds harsh.

Do you have a job? Get one.

Do you have hobbies that you care about? Get those too.

If I were to start texting exes about anything, whether it's borrowing a loaf of bread or asking where my DVD of Predator is, that would be a wake-up call about the sad state of affairs in my life.

Stop talking to your exes, and women that you weren't interested in enough to call in the first place. If you have to get your rocks off, get your rocks off, and come back when you have a real question.
 
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