"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you let the female ask you out on dates/outings from time to time?

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Let's say if the last 2-3 dates/outings you went on with your girl were brought up/proposed/planned by you. Should the next time you go out be asked by her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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maybe after a few more dates.

2 or 3 is not enough.
 
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You are still getting to know her. Most women want the man to pursue in the first few months. If you wait for her to ask this early, you may never go out again...
 
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lets say a girl asks you out tho? id just comply, why not. would there be something wrong with that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wait to see if they ask you out. If they really like you they will make an effort to hang out with you.. DONT CHASE IT NEVER WORKS! Sit back and chill if she doesnt call she doesnt but most likely she will if she feels you
 
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I mean, we've kissed and she went to prom with me this past Friday and we went on dates the two weekends before that.

This Monday she's coming to my graduation and after that coming to eat with me and the family afterwards.

I wanna go out with her this saturday but I don't know if I should ask. ...
 
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