"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you let the female ask you out on dates/outings from time to time?

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Let's say if the last 2-3 dates/outings you went on with your girl were brought up/proposed/planned by you. Should the next time you go out be asked by her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe after a few more dates.

2 or 3 is not enough.
 
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You are still getting to know her. Most women want the man to pursue in the first few months. If you wait for her to ask this early, you may never go out again...
 
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lets say a girl asks you out tho? id just comply, why not. would there be something wrong with that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wait to see if they ask you out. If they really like you they will make an effort to hang out with you.. DONT CHASE IT NEVER WORKS! Sit back and chill if she doesnt call she doesnt but most likely she will if she feels you
 
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I mean, we've kissed and she went to prom with me this past Friday and we went on dates the two weekends before that.

This Monday she's coming to my graduation and after that coming to eat with me and the family afterwards.

I wanna go out with her this saturday but I don't know if I should ask. ...
 
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