"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you let girls know you're also fvcking other girls?

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46and2aheadofme

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My take on it is to give them a very open ended answer. Let it be a mystery, and therefore never purposely bring it up (thats a good way to show her that you are trying to prove yourself).

Instead, never mention it unless she brings it up. And in the event that she does, don't answer her immediately. Answer her question with another question: "why, would it bother you if I did?" or "Do I seem like that type of guy to you?"

Or tell her something along the lines of "I'm just looking to have fun and meet new people. It just so happens that a lot of those people tend to be female".

This way you get the effect of implying that she does have competition, without sending her a red flag by telling her straight up that you are b0inking other women.

(My examples are nowhere near perfect but they demonstrate my point.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
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How about we flip the situation. Lets say you meet this girl and go on a couple dates. Later, she tells you she is keeping her options open and is seeing other guys. What would you do? You would proably step your game up to get her if you really wanted her.
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Say what? You have got to be kidding me. What would I do? I would try to hit that as quick as possible and move on. Then she can chase me because unlike all the guys who are trying to 'step their game up' (AFCS trying to prove they are worthy), I showed her exactly what she was to me and she has to prove to me she is more than just a kumdumpster. Turn the tables and make em chase.

and why the hell is capedcrusader giving advice in this thread? Seriously? wtf?
 
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Warrior74 said:
Say what? You have got to be kidding me. What would I do? I would try to hit that as quick as possible and move on. Then she can chase me because unlike all the guys who are trying to 'step their game up' (AFCS trying to prove they are worthy), I showed her exactly what she was to me and she has to prove to me she is more than just a kumdumpster. Turn the tables and make em chase.

and why the hell is capedcrusader giving advice in this thread? Seriously? wtf?
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I understand that but, the question at hand is if you should tell your plates your seeing other girls. I just gave an example from a different perspective.
 
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