“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you let girls know you're also fvcking other girls?

46and2aheadofme

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My take on it is to give them a very open ended answer. Let it be a mystery, and therefore never purposely bring it up (thats a good way to show her that you are trying to prove yourself).

Instead, never mention it unless she brings it up. And in the event that she does, don't answer her immediately. Answer her question with another question: "why, would it bother you if I did?" or "Do I seem like that type of guy to you?"

Or tell her something along the lines of "I'm just looking to have fun and meet new people. It just so happens that a lot of those people tend to be female".

This way you get the effect of implying that she does have competition, without sending her a red flag by telling her straight up that you are b0inking other women.

(My examples are nowhere near perfect but they demonstrate my point.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
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How about we flip the situation. Lets say you meet this girl and go on a couple dates. Later, she tells you she is keeping her options open and is seeing other guys. What would you do? You would proably step your game up to get her if you really wanted her.

Say what? You have got to be kidding me. What would I do? I would try to hit that as quick as possible and move on. Then she can chase me because unlike all the guys who are trying to 'step their game up' (AFCS trying to prove they are worthy), I showed her exactly what she was to me and she has to prove to me she is more than just a kumdumpster. Turn the tables and make em chase.

and why the hell is capedcrusader giving advice in this thread? Seriously? wtf?
 

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Warrior74 said:
Say what? You have got to be kidding me. What would I do? I would try to hit that as quick as possible and move on. Then she can chase me because unlike all the guys who are trying to 'step their game up' (AFCS trying to prove they are worthy), I showed her exactly what she was to me and she has to prove to me she is more than just a kumdumpster. Turn the tables and make em chase.

and why the hell is capedcrusader giving advice in this thread? Seriously? wtf?
I understand that but, the question at hand is if you should tell your plates your seeing other girls. I just gave an example from a different perspective.
 
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