"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, there's this new girl at work. She seems shy. The first time I saw her I walked up to her and was like "hey my name is golf299, what's yours?" she gave me her name and that was it.

we work in two different areas at work so i don't really get to see/talk to her much at all.

recently she took a vacation, and she just started the job! so, i decided to give her some crap about it: "you just started working her and already taking vacation, huh? i wish i could work for a week and take a week off. that's a pretty sweet deal you've got" --all said smiling and in a joking manner.

what was her response? no comment and she just turned away from me. WTF?

i know that's not much to go on, but do you have any insight, or similar experiences?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No I don't know the girls, but I think you just established yourself as an ass.

I've had similar experience when I thought what I would say would be good but they totally took it the wrong way. Most of the time, you plan it too much. It's not totally lost though. You still might have a chance.

Just play your cards right,
 
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If she keeps 'not talking' call her on it maybe?
 
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Did she take Vacation or is that what they are calling it. She may of had somthing going on in her life that was serious and that is why she took that time off, not vacation. Serious look at from managment POV would you allow a new employee to take vacation that soon...

You may have really F'd Up. Yo!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by zerocelcius
Did she take Vacation or is that what they are calling it. She may of had somthing going on in her life that was serious and that is why she took that time off, not vacation. Serious look at from managment POV would you allow a new employee to take vacation that soon...

You may have really F'd Up. Yo!
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Yeah, this is a good point. Of course, if she really was on vacation and gave you that response, she has a stick up her arse and not worth the trouble. A girl with 'some what' of a personality and a sense of humor would have at least made a smart comment back. NEXT!!
 
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