im actually kinda broke now. and im still just depending on my parents. im still 20 btw.. but guess what, ive had the success like the many of you. ha.. what im asking is do you know a way of dating which is not expensive or maybe freE? something like just drinking in some bars maybe, its not expensive for me i think. or may be sometimes just wtch the movies. but what else do you have in mind?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do you know how to date that is not expensive?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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lOL . . . Take her to a park . . . Grab some coffee and some other stuff like that. And some flowers too 
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Flowers? What is this 1922?
But actually, my question to you is: what the hell are you doing for dates that is so expensive?
Unless we're talking about serious girlfriends, all I do is take these girls out for drinks. If it does end up being a show or some kind of food, just let them pay. They usually offer.
But actually, my question to you is: what the hell are you doing for dates that is so expensive?
Unless we're talking about serious girlfriends, all I do is take these girls out for drinks. If it does end up being a show or some kind of food, just let them pay. They usually offer.
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at home?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
its probably not a good idea i think. for it implies that all you want is sex(if its the first date)..goodlistener said:
and btw, thanks for the tips about starbucks, park and free events.. ill try that park thing.. hehe..
and also, on the show thing, how will they offer? a girl once asked me if ill pay the bills for our date. how do you respond to this wherein shell contribute to the bills or maybe pay a bigger part in the bill? hehe thanks
the problem is, im from the philippines and women here are different.. i think shes still a virgin thats why i gotta be careful.. i once invited her to come here at the house and then talked for a while on the phone. but then she never answered back again