"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you know how to date that is not expensive?

sd.boi69

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im actually kinda broke now. and im still just depending on my parents. im still 20 btw.. but guess what, ive had the success like the many of you. ha.. what im asking is do you know a way of dating which is not expensive or maybe freE? something like just drinking in some bars maybe, its not expensive for me i think. or may be sometimes just wtch the movies. but what else do you have in mind?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Flowers? What is this 1922?

But actually, my question to you is: what the hell are you doing for dates that is so expensive?

Unless we're talking about serious girlfriends, all I do is take these girls out for drinks. If it does end up being a show or some kind of food, just let them pay. They usually offer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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goodlistener said:
its probably not a good idea i think. for it implies that all you want is sex(if its the first date)..

and btw, thanks for the tips about starbucks, park and free events.. ill try that park thing.. hehe..

and also, on the show thing, how will they offer? a girl once asked me if ill pay the bills for our date. how do you respond to this wherein shell contribute to the bills or maybe pay a bigger part in the bill? hehe thanks
 

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sd.boi69 said:
its probably not a good idea i think. for it implies that all you want is sex(if its the first date)..
So what? You don't have to lie about what you're looking for. There's plenty of chicks who will comply.
 

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the problem is, im from the philippines and women here are different.. i think shes still a virgin thats why i gotta be careful.. i once invited her to come here at the house and then talked for a while on the phone. but then she never answered back again
 
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