"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you know how to date that is not expensive?

sd.boi69

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im actually kinda broke now. and im still just depending on my parents. im still 20 btw.. but guess what, ive had the success like the many of you. ha.. what im asking is do you know a way of dating which is not expensive or maybe freE? something like just drinking in some bars maybe, its not expensive for me i think. or may be sometimes just wtch the movies. but what else do you have in mind?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flowers? What is this 1922?

But actually, my question to you is: what the hell are you doing for dates that is so expensive?

Unless we're talking about serious girlfriends, all I do is take these girls out for drinks. If it does end up being a show or some kind of food, just let them pay. They usually offer.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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goodlistener said:
its probably not a good idea i think. for it implies that all you want is sex(if its the first date)..

and btw, thanks for the tips about starbucks, park and free events.. ill try that park thing.. hehe..

and also, on the show thing, how will they offer? a girl once asked me if ill pay the bills for our date. how do you respond to this wherein shell contribute to the bills or maybe pay a bigger part in the bill? hehe thanks
 

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sd.boi69 said:
its probably not a good idea i think. for it implies that all you want is sex(if its the first date)..
So what? You don't have to lie about what you're looking for. There's plenty of chicks who will comply.
 

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the problem is, im from the philippines and women here are different.. i think shes still a virgin thats why i gotta be careful.. i once invited her to come here at the house and then talked for a while on the phone. but then she never answered back again
 
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