"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you kiss/hug on a first date?

tony-montana

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got a date tomorrow... do you kiss their cheek on a first date or hug or just say hello and sit down and talk?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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scrouds

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I go for the hug hello. Kiss on the cheek is not my style, and is generally reserved for family and close friends.

ACCEPT NO IMMITATIONS either. haha.
 
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Just go for what feels natural there and then. Your behavior should mostly or only just have guidelines, never strict rules. Being a robot is boring. What feels natural is almost always what is right. Trust your instinct. It's a reason we have it.

A kiss can come natural after meeting a person in a few seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months.
 
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Allurre

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Leave the hugging alone and kissing alone.

1st Dates = Get to know her. Stay mysterious, but leave the window to you slightly open. Let her talk. Don't RUSH.

2nd Date = Proceed to more intimate bases. Kiss.

Now, that's just how I roll. If you prefer to let your instinct guide you, then go ahead, if the vibe is right, go for lip lock.
 

DonGorgon

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if you dont at least kiss on the lips on the first meeting she is not into you... hugs mean nothing but a tight hug and kiss is great.. if she gives you a light lame hug and pats your back you are done..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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