"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do You Have Go To Moves? Do You Play to Your Strengths? Or Are You Always Reinventing

Young Juan

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I ask this because from what I see, all of the most succesful guys I've met basically have a concrete repertoire of moves they use consistently, and live and die by them. A lot of the unsuccesful guys I see are trying new things every time, not perfecting everything and have a bunch of sub-par moves they haven't really perfected, either from not enough repetition/practice or not enough attempts with the same move (basically failing at first and not giving it a chance to succeed.)

I'd like to know if you consider yourself successful or not, and in which of these categories you fit in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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Purefilth's 'go to moves'.

Smile

Wink

Give me your number.

Kiss close.

Take hand an lead off.

^^These are the only things I do consistently. Not all at the same time (well sometimes), but I'm not sure thats what you're asking.

What do you mean by 'moves'?
 

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I have one or two "goto" approaches. It's more natural things to me than anything scripted, I like high fives or to spin a girl round and get closer to her. This works for me a lot of the time, eye contact and then approach, the rest is natural. I am starting to experiment with a few more openers because I think the key is to be dynamic and adapt to the scenario, what works in a club or with a certain type of girl probably won't work during the day..
 

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i went to the movies once with the girl i was seeing at the time..

was ok. went to have dinner then a movie. made out a little during too.

came home and had a good ****..

was epic!

i would leave dinner and a move to when you know the girl WELL. say 5th date. or so. i like it keep it light and simple.
 

Young Juan

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When I say go to moves, I mean openers, first dates, from the front door to the bedroom, etc.

Go to first date is bring her to my place, cook garlic butter shrimp, veggies, and pasta. Bottle of Moscato and a redbox. Either funny or scary. Typically scary, since they either hug up or get bored. Kino with either hand on the thigh or arm around the shoulder. Make some cheesy comment, eye contact, go in for the makeout. Hands through the hair and on the scalp during makeout. Work the neck. Get a shirt off, lead to the bedroom. Sit her on bed, whip out ****, insert to mouth. Bang.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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