"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do You Have Go To Moves? Do You Play to Your Strengths? Or Are You Always Reinventing

Young Juan

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I ask this because from what I see, all of the most succesful guys I've met basically have a concrete repertoire of moves they use consistently, and live and die by them. A lot of the unsuccesful guys I see are trying new things every time, not perfecting everything and have a bunch of sub-par moves they haven't really perfected, either from not enough repetition/practice or not enough attempts with the same move (basically failing at first and not giving it a chance to succeed.)

I'd like to know if you consider yourself successful or not, and in which of these categories you fit in.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Purefilth

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Purefilth's 'go to moves'.

Smile

Wink

Give me your number.

Kiss close.

Take hand an lead off.

^^These are the only things I do consistently. Not all at the same time (well sometimes), but I'm not sure thats what you're asking.

What do you mean by 'moves'?
 

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I have one or two "goto" approaches. It's more natural things to me than anything scripted, I like high fives or to spin a girl round and get closer to her. This works for me a lot of the time, eye contact and then approach, the rest is natural. I am starting to experiment with a few more openers because I think the key is to be dynamic and adapt to the scenario, what works in a club or with a certain type of girl probably won't work during the day..
 

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i went to the movies once with the girl i was seeing at the time..

was ok. went to have dinner then a movie. made out a little during too.

came home and had a good ****..

was epic!

i would leave dinner and a move to when you know the girl WELL. say 5th date. or so. i like it keep it light and simple.
 

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When I say go to moves, I mean openers, first dates, from the front door to the bedroom, etc.

Go to first date is bring her to my place, cook garlic butter shrimp, veggies, and pasta. Bottle of Moscato and a redbox. Either funny or scary. Typically scary, since they either hug up or get bored. Kino with either hand on the thigh or arm around the shoulder. Make some cheesy comment, eye contact, go in for the makeout. Hands through the hair and on the scalp during makeout. Work the neck. Get a shirt off, lead to the bedroom. Sit her on bed, whip out ****, insert to mouth. Bang.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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