"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do you have an AFC or a DJ dating motto?

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crotchrocket

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Does your dating motto make you an AFC or DJ?

These are the rules (in my little part of the world anyway) that most of the guys (and girls of course) follow;

1. you can only 'date' one at a time, if you are dating one - under no circumstances are you allowed to associate with others (in a 'dating' context)
2. if she 'officially' has a boyfriend she is off limits,
3. an 'official status' (boyfriend/girlfriend) is essential, this label is a measure of your success in the dating game

My motto;

1. I date whoever, whenever, and however many I want, if the women can't deal with it then hey that's HER problem
2. MAY THE BEST MAN WIN , NO woman is off-limits (married women - personally I draw the line there)
3. 'official' status is too confining, NOBODY owns me, my success is measured by the number and the quality of women that I've dated/am dating, the number of women that have labeled me their boyfriend is of little importance to me

Am I the ONLY one that has these beliefs? What motto do you follow?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frivolousz21

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Why date one girl at once?!
You could be out there dating as many as you can mentally keep up with (my limits about 8 then I start forgetting what people tell which looks VERY bad on your part)




thats is true..as much as you can handle...put it this way..you want to accelerate your dj progress.

the more women you date the more of a natural vibe you will give off..and you will be much better at communicating with them!
 
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I follow #1.

The only reason why I would be truly exclusive with a woman is if she provides 5/6 of these things:

1. Sex compability
2. Good conversations
3. Reliable
4. Considerate
5. Inclusive
6. Stable

The only thing I do not mind about someone is financial stability.

4/6 = I'll tolerate it
3/6 = I'll fake it
2/6 = FWB

A woman proudly exclaims she fakes her orgasms, oh how proud. A man can fake an entire relationship.
 
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