Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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do you have an AFC or a DJ dating motto?

crotchrocket

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Does your dating motto make you an AFC or DJ?

These are the rules (in my little part of the world anyway) that most of the guys (and girls of course) follow;

1. you can only 'date' one at a time, if you are dating one - under no circumstances are you allowed to associate with others (in a 'dating' context)
2. if she 'officially' has a boyfriend she is off limits,
3. an 'official status' (boyfriend/girlfriend) is essential, this label is a measure of your success in the dating game

My motto;

1. I date whoever, whenever, and however many I want, if the women can't deal with it then hey that's HER problem
2. MAY THE BEST MAN WIN , NO woman is off-limits (married women - personally I draw the line there)
3. 'official' status is too confining, NOBODY owns me, my success is measured by the number and the quality of women that I've dated/am dating, the number of women that have labeled me their boyfriend is of little importance to me

Am I the ONLY one that has these beliefs? What motto do you follow?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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Why date one girl at once?!
You could be out there dating as many as you can mentally keep up with (my limits about 8 then I start forgetting what people tell which looks VERY bad on your part)




thats is true..as much as you can handle...put it this way..you want to accelerate your dj progress.

the more women you date the more of a natural vibe you will give off..and you will be much better at communicating with them!
 

Skullcrusher

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I follow #1.

The only reason why I would be truly exclusive with a woman is if she provides 5/6 of these things:

1. Sex compability
2. Good conversations
3. Reliable
4. Considerate
5. Inclusive
6. Stable

The only thing I do not mind about someone is financial stability.

4/6 = I'll tolerate it
3/6 = I'll fake it
2/6 = FWB

A woman proudly exclaims she fakes her orgasms, oh how proud. A man can fake an entire relationship.
 
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